You make fun of me about Alypiana, saying she is small and unworthy of your size, you tall and huge and monstrous fellow in both body and strength. So now I understand that the soul is a matter of measurement, and virtue of weight, and that rocks are more valuable than pearls, and crows more respectable than nightingales. Well then! Take pride in your bigness and your height, and be in no way inferior to the famous sons of Aloeus. You ride a horse and shake a spear and occupy yourself with wild beasts. But she has no such work, and no great strength is needed to carry a comb or handle a distaff or sit by a loom. For such is the glory of woman. And if you add this, that she has become rooted to the ground because of prayer, and by the intense movement of her mind has constant communion with God, what is there here to boast about in your bigness or the height of your body? Pay attention to timely silence, listen to her voice, notice her lack of adornment, her womanly courage, her usefulness at home, her love of her husband. Then you will say with the Spartan that truly the soul is not a subject for measurement, and the outer must look to the inner man. If you look at things this way you will stop joking and mocking her as small, and you will congratulate yourself on your marriage.
You joke me about Alypiana as being little and unworthy of your size, you tall and immense and monstrous fellow both in form and strength. For now I understand that soul is a matter of measure, and virtue of weight, and that rocks are more valuable than pearls, and crows more respectable than nightingales. Well, well! rejoice in your bigness and your cubits, and be in no respect inferior to the famed sons of Aloeus. You ride a horse, and shake a spear, and concern yourself with wild beasts. But she has no such work; and no great strength is needed to carry a comb, or to handle a distaff, or to sit by a loom, For such is the glory of woman. And if you add this, that she has become fixed to the ground on account of prayer, and by the great movement of her mind has constant communion with God, what is there here to boast of in your bigness or the stature of your body? Take heed to seasonable silence: listen to her voice: mark her unadornment, her womanly virility, her usefulness at home, her love of her husband. Then you will say with the Laconian, that verily soul is not a subject for measure, and the outer must look to the inner man. If you look at the things in this way you will leave off joking and deriding her as little, and you will congratulate yourself on your marriage.